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08-08-2014 06:57 PM
08-08-2014 06:57 PM
Circles and cycles
This post is thanks to justanother47yr
Something clicked with your last post. You liked a post on the carers forum. As contributor to the lived experience forum I had some how forgotten or pushed aside that I have a feeling of responsibility to make both forums sucessful.....thanks mate
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11-08-2014 05:05 PM
11-08-2014 05:05 PM
Re: Circles and cycles
We acknowledge your contirbution Harry
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14-08-2014 05:58 PM
14-08-2014 05:58 PM
Re: Circles and cycles
Hi Harry, love to hear how you are going sometime!
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14-08-2014 06:56 PM
14-08-2014 06:56 PM
Re: Circles and cycles
Hey Hobbit
Very nice pic. You best be careful as I have a thing for Hobbits LOL.
I am doing very well indeed thanks. I have been pretty busy with school this last week so haven't been around to post a lot.
Just home from school actually, chillin out with a cuppa. Looking forward to seeing the Gyuto Monks of Tibet tomorrow night.
More posts to follow.
Give my regards to my friends in The Shire
Harry
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14-08-2014 07:41 PM
14-08-2014 07:41 PM
Re: Circles and cycles
Hi Harry,
Excellent to hear! Hope school is going well for you. I too have recently started studying again.
I looked up Gyuto Monks of Tibet on Google - sounds interestng!!
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02-09-2014 03:49 PM - edited 02-09-2014 03:52 PM
02-09-2014 03:49 PM - edited 02-09-2014 03:52 PM
Re: Circles and cycles
iI am proud to be a Consumer. We are the people who stick our hands up and say; I am a Consumer . consumer means that We have accessed mental health places in the past. We also act in a non judgemental way to others we meet on the street and are aware of keeping ourselves safe. because we have been there.
that's what I think anyway.
you?
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04-09-2014 09:20 PM
04-09-2014 09:20 PM
Re: Circles and cycles
Hi Justanother47yr,
I really like your take on that. A lot of people do not like the word consumer, but this puts it in a whole different light. It gives it a sense of empowerment. Good on you!!
thanks very much
Hobbit.
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09-09-2014 10:16 PM - edited 09-09-2014 10:24 PM
09-09-2014 10:16 PM - edited 09-09-2014 10:24 PM
Re: Circles and cycles
I think that feeling good comes from within and if you don't.....a person may want to start with this very little step.
'What is important to me?'
When my youngest son was so ill and going in and out of hospital and my oldest son was going through troubles I wasn't able to function without a huge amount of pain on my shoulders.
....I chose to think.... I'm .........off that things are so difficult.
I need to cope tomorrow.
What is the most important thing for me?
It was....to be kind.
Then about 6 months later it stretched to ....to be safe. To be kind.
Then....to be clean.
I talked about this to my therapist.
and this is how I existed for a long time. I didn't want to be anything but that.
Somehow....I got through.
It's different for everyone.
Is this something you would do? Work out what is important to you?
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11-09-2014 09:19 PM
11-09-2014 09:19 PM
Re: Circles and cycles
Hi Justanother47y/o,
I think working out what's important to you is the same as taking care of yourself. From what I am reading in your post, it's kind of like 'focussing on the task at hand'?? As in 'what's important to me NOW'
I see you re-evaluate what's important to you now as time goes on. I think that's a really good strategy. We all go through change, our circumstances change, therefore what's important to us would also change as time goes on. This I think is being flexible with the changing currents of life, and is REALLY important.
An analogy - I was once washing my car, I had a plastic bucket of water. I accidentally backed over the bucket. Being plastic, the bucket simply squashed a bit out of shape, but it was still a bucket (and I still actually use it). This was because the bucket was flexible. If it was a hard metal bucket, even thought it's technically sturdier and stronger than a plastic bucket, it's not flexible. The metal bucket would have been squashed and destroyed and become useless. So the point I'm making is the so called "stronger" metal bucket would have been ruined, where the apparently "weaker" plastic bucket is flexible, and survives another day.
So what others may see as a weakness, there's strength in being flexible. That's what will get us through to the next day. That's probably what's important to me. Being flexible enough to carry on in life.
That's (unseen) strength.You have that!!
Hobbit.
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11-09-2014 11:18 PM
11-09-2014 11:18 PM
Right now, I made another of my frequent mistakes.
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