@ENKELI my daughter said “if you don’t have expectations of others, you’ll never be disappointed”.
Easier said than done. There’s no excuse for bad manners.
So many people are made of Teflon. For me it’s easier to be honest and say something to the effect of ‘I farqued up. I’m embarrassed and I don’t have the social skills to address this situation.’
My ex-narc and my former in laws, were big fans of ignoring issues, problems, misunderstandings, miscommunication and general grievances and pretending that it never happened.
Whatever is going on in your Padawan’s head, it’s up to them to find the force.
Maybe she has been moved aside to make room for someone or something else?
