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15-01-2019 07:37 PM - edited 15-01-2019 07:39 PM
15-01-2019 07:37 PM - edited 15-01-2019 07:39 PM
Re: Topic Tuesday // Parenting with mental health challenges // Tues 15th Jan, 7pm AEDT
Hey @CheerBear!
So glad you had a good experience with Parentline 🙂
And I agree with @nashy that sense of having to juggle can be tricky and something lots of parents can relate to I think. Especially when it comes to the day to day routines.
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15-01-2019 07:44 PM - edited 15-01-2019 07:46 PM
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Parenting with mental health challenges // Tues 15th Jan, 7pm AEDT
🙂 @CheerBear @BelleParentline The day to day routines for sure can be jarring, it's most easy to become really hard on ourselves to throughout the process of recovery.
It is not uncommon amidst the presentation of our own mental health symptoms to feel overwhelmed by a sense of shame and guilt. Which is a good segway into question 2 😄
What are some other emotions that can be the most confronting whilst balancing parenting and recovery?
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15-01-2019 07:45 PM
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Parenting with mental health challenges // Tues 15th Jan, 7pm AEDT
Hello @BelleParentline, @nashy
Hello @Determined, @CheerBear
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Parenting with mental health challenges // Tues 15th Jan, 7pm AEDT
@nashyConflicting and powerful emotions can certainly come up for us all. When they do, we can feel pretty destabilised. Once we can identify what we are feeling and why, we can process and move through them. Shame and guilt are significant emotions for so many parents, which can also tap into fear of judgement or stigma. Other significant emotions parents often describe is frustration or anger towards themselves, their situation, or for not ‘being better’. Some parents can feel they are the only ones struggling. While confronting and can take time to work through, these emotions are natural and you’re not alone in them.
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Parenting with mental health challenges // Tues 15th Jan, 7pm AEDT
@Shaz51 welcome 🙂 glad you could join
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15-01-2019 07:53 PM
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Parenting with mental health challenges // Tues 15th Jan, 7pm AEDT
As you mentioned Belle, that fear of judgement is a big one for me. I think that can be made more intense because of mental health challenges too. I have worried in the past that people will automatically assume I can't look after my kids because of my mental health.
Hey @Shaz51 🙂
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15-01-2019 07:57 PM
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Parenting with mental health challenges // Tues 15th Jan, 7pm AEDT
Hello @BelleParentline, @nashy, @CheerBear
even though my 4 step children are all adults now , and they are all different in their own way xx
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15-01-2019 08:00 PM
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Parenting with mental health challenges // Tues 15th Jan, 7pm AEDT
@CheerBear@nashysuch a good point about the different developmental stages. They can bring with them whole new challenges emotionally!
Thanks for sharing about that fear of judgement too. That is a big one for lots of parents. I can be hard (but so important) to remember the strength it takes to manage being a parent in addition to managing your own mental health. It takes strength, not weakness 🙂
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Parenting with mental health challenges // Tues 15th Jan, 7pm AEDT
Thanks for sharing 🙂 @Shaz51
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15-01-2019 08:07 PM
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Parenting with mental health challenges // Tues 15th Jan, 7pm AEDT
Loving the insight 🙂 @BelleParentline
Expanding on the last question…
How can we exercise compassion towards ourselves throughout the process of parenting and mental health recovery?